FALL IN LOVE💕💖

Hello lovelies🙌🏾,
These days are getting by so fast that I find it difficult to catch up nowadays, ugh🙉.. anyway, am back!💃🏻. Thank you for reading, thank you for trusting me to deliver my thoughts expressly too👧🏼

My thoughts are geared towards a lot of childhood experiences we all had at one time or the other & it gives me a nostalgic feeling each time I recount or reminisce. Many of us are living lives that were probably messed up from our childhood, mistakes that should have been corrected but we kept it to ourselves. A lot more are facing the consequences of decisions not taken as they crossed from childhood to adulthood. Some are still leaving with broken hearts & grief because they were too uncertain or shy to take a decision🤭.

The teen years are years of complete helplessness & surrender🤓.. right from high school & even primary Schools, bigger kids had formed relationships or alliances, it was the season of the “crushes”  &the crushed. Everyone practically had a crush on the class captain or the prettiest girl in class😍. Back on those days, love letters flew everywhere, chocolates & chocolate biscuits as well as other niceties were the attraction. If you did not have your own boyfriend, you were in soup🤭😢.

Some really fell in love & eventually moved to get married💏, some got pregnant & were completely dumped😢, some others had lovely relationships but those were just stepping stones to where God was taking them. People like I had our own o🙈 but if you ever pointed it out to me eh, I would scream & cry saying “he’s just my friend ooo”😂😂 . With the kind of dad I had,Biko,  nothing like that could happen. I have some good memories & some bad memories. A lot of hearts were broken, till date some people still have not moved on, the pain left scars, left irreparable marks. Some have placed curses on others because of same heartbreak, others have turned the love they once shared to a gross dislike & hatred for each other. God help us all hmmm🙏🏾

Life is simple guys😊, there will always be twists & turns. When true love comes, please embrace it, it’s a sweet thing. Corinthians tells us that love is kind & patient..forgive those that have hurt you, please move on from past hurts, don’t let it destroy the lovely people that you will eventually meet. Ask God for guidance, ask Him for forgiveness. Some of us have made mistakes that we cannot change, it’s a bit late but then, we can forgive, we can totally move on.

Yes, we dint marry our high school sweetheart but guess what? he has given us so much more, think it through & you will be thankful. That person you are comparing with your past relationships has better packages than what you once had,  look within. No matter what your fleshly desires call out, follow through with what God mapped out for you, it will give you peace.

As carelessly used, the word LOVE can also be an entrapment, be very careful of falling into the wrong hands, falling in love is not all about “ bodily “ dictates or desires, it’s much more than that. What we think is love may just be lust after all.

Today, thank God for helping you through, appreciate Him for where you are & where He is taking you.  A lot are still hurting, please let go, let your hearts love again🎀💖💝

I do hope this message has spoken to you. I am certain somewhere someone needs to hear this to move on. You need to heal, you need to stand firm. Start by loving yourself unreservedly. That heart of yours can’t carry too many hurts. It’s time to take good care of yourself ♥️

I would love to read from you. Share your story, you never know the life you would be saving by doing so🙋🏽‍♀️. I can’t wait for your feedback. I am so excited as it is🤗😁🌹.

Please don’t lose hope, there’s a guy & lady for you out there🎀
🌹Jisola.aina@gmail.com 08023289156🌹

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    1. Thanks sis... hope you are good???
      Sometimes, we need to remind ourselves of some stuff😊

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